The Sisterhood of Motherhood

Like I have said before the statement "it takes a village" is completely true when it comes to raising children.  We have definitely experienced this with my mom living with us, having her around is priceless.  I have also learned to include fellow mothers in this "village".  It might look like a quick text of encouraging words, accepting an offer of help or kids' clothes, commiserating about a really hard day over coffee (or wine) and the list goes on...I have come to think of these women as sisters and an integral part of my life.  Some have kids that are older and can offer wisdom from their experience and some are in the same stage of life we are in.  These women have given us countless bags of clothes and baby paraphernalia (when we found out we were having our surprise baby and had given everything away).  Zoe has received basically her entire wardrobe from them.  One friend put great effort into brainstorming how to make life easier for me after baby #3 because she knew from having just had her 3rd that it's hard. When she said "how can we help" I really felt cared for.  It wasn't just an empty offer but was supported by suggestions and ideas.

I have friends who have really put their hearts into praying for me when I have gone through rough times with Kieren, felt depressed or had disturbing dreams.  One very special lady lives across the world in Japan and yet I feel like she could be right here, going through life with me.

Some women I met in college and am only in touch with them through email or Facebook.  Some live here in Seattle and I mostly see them at church because we're all so busy and it's hard to connect during the week.  Some live near me and we do our best to get together occasionally even if it's only for an hour.  The point is no matter how busy everyone is, I know they truly care and they will do whatever they can to help.  Whether I have known them for 15 years, 7 or 2...these women inspire me, encourage me and motivate me.  You know who you are.  I want to say Happy Mother's Day to you, not just the Hallmark holiday but everyday because you are a mother everyday.  You are beautiful, you are amazing and I am forever grateful that you are my friend.

Love Jasmine

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