Life After FB

 Things I have noticed since beginning my Facebook detox and deciding to take a long "break"...

-I have a renewed sense of hope in humanity.  Yes, I know that we still disagree about a lot and there is still a lot of "bad" things happening...but I don't have it constantly in my face, which is WONDERFUL.

-QUIET.  I don't have a constant stream of negativity bombarding my brain, distracting me from the beauty around me.

-TIME to sit down and play with and focus on my children.  To really listen to them without being distracted by notifications.

-I can look at people around me and just look at them, without thinking about what they "posted" on Facebook or what ridiculous meme they re-shared....and I'm sure this goes both ways, they can just look at me without thinking of those things too!

So far I am really enjoying this break.  This is not to say I will never go back but when I do, I will definitely have better restrictions for myself and I don't think I will ever put it back on my phone.

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